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If you have a child that is born in December, celebrating with a party can be quite a challenge. Before I had children, one of my friends told me that children’s parties were very “competitive” these days, which at the time struck me as odd and I thought that he may be exaggerating. Nope. He was right … or maybe it’s just here. My children are invited to parties with a guest list of 70 to 150 children (plus parents and siblings ?!?!) with every form of entertainment you can imagine. When did it become a three-ring circus and what ever happened to the sweet, little parties of our youth? Those were great!
None of these large 70-150 children parties have to contend with cold weather either, which keeps them indoors and throws a monkey-wrench in burning off the “exuberance“ that seems to multiply in intensity with each munchkin added. Since I don’t want to spend that kind of money on a children’s party that they A.) may not remember and B.) would have just as good of a time if I put them in a room full of balloons, balls and dogs, I keep the girls’ parties on a smaller scale and just invite their little classmates/close friends.
What better solution to a December birthday than a visit from Santa and Mrs. Claus?
I let the parents know ahead of time so that they could be prepared with cameras and whatever outfit in which they wanted their children photographed.
After the children arrive, Mr and Mrs. Claus sneak in and he announces their arrival by playing bagpipes, which I adore!
The children listen to stories…
…and they all get a turn with him. The brilliant thing is, he has an earpiece and I have all the info on the children being read to him, so he knows everything! I had asked each parent to provide me with whatever they wanted him to say, agree to, praise them for, suggest they may need to improve upon and family details (pets, siblings, names, etc.)
If my older daughter knew the older siblings, they were invited too so that she would have some play mates.
Blowing out the candles on her cake!
I’ve shown these before, but I prefer to give out invitations as opposed to Evites because children love to “get mail”.
I love throwing big parties – the planning, the details, the decorating – but I’m not going to go “all out” for my child’s birthday in terms of number of guests. I can barely keep track of mine, let alone more little bodies floating around!
You would think after my last post, I would be reticent to put children in a “nicer” room with silk and velvet sofas, but I like to use ours rooms and don’t believe a living room is to be “looked at” but not entered. Our Christmas tree is in there and the room makes for a wonderful backdrop for pictures, which is why I opted to use that room for (gasp!) part of the children’s party. (I only had problems with one child continually climbing on the sofas, despite her mother being there, who noticed but was too busy talking or just lets her children climb on their furniture at home).
The dining room was set up the same way with the same serving pieces, trays and chafing dishes I would use for an adult party and I also opted for glasses and crystal plates so as to delineate the occasion as a very special one. But, to be fair, the plates and glasses were not Baccarat crystal, so I wouldn’t flinch if one got broken!
(Note to brides: I figured out a long time ago, if you intend to have more than one large party, it makes more financial sense to buy the pieces as opposed to renting them. I have a ton of glasses, goblets, champagne flutes, etc. and the crystal plates I got on an incredible sale from Horchow and went ahead and ordered 12 sets of 12 for the first large party we had. They make wonderful hors d’oeuvres plates.)
Mama Rosemary said:
What a great idea to have Santa and Mrs Claus come to your little girl’s party. It looks like it was a blast and very special. I have a little girl with a December birthday too and it can be a challenge to find special ways to celebrate. Last year we went to our local cooking school for a gingerbread house making party and it was great!
ADetailedHouse said:
What a fabulous idea!! I love it…to the point of stealing it for next year!!! 😉
Mama Rosemary said:
It was super fun. I did a post about it if you want to see what it was like: http://mamarosemary.com/2012/12/05/gingerbread-house-party/
Not sure where you are located but if you are near by here, I highly recommend the place we used!
Now we know December B-day’s can be lots of fun!!!
jimmyandjulia said:
That looks wonderful and special… and I would have hated a party with a guest list of more than my friends, anyway, so double good on you!
ADetailedHouse said:
Oh, thank you! And I agree – and think it can be awkward too! One of our girls was invited to a big party that we didn’t know the family …. And my child don’t know the kid since she was in a different class! (We didn’t go since my child didn’t want to)…
oldnp said:
December, March, July. What difference does it make. A child’s birthday party is for a child – not an extravaganza to embellish a parent’s ego. Your idea of focusing on your child elevates your parental skills to a level far above the seeming lowest common denominator norm of the day. Bravo!
ADetailedHouse said:
Thank you so much! I think smaller, intimate parties are much more meaningful and *are* for the children! I don’t understand why so many have moved away from them – it truly is a shame 😦
Author MelindaTripp said:
Today, 12/12/12 is my youngest daughter’s 28th birthday.
She has looked forward to this special date, and hoped she could be in New York,
Manhattan….instead this young working mom is taking an all day test for her work as an orthopedic nurse, then going out with her husband to dinner.
My girls were born 12 days before and twelve days after (Epiphany) Christmas.
We rented bowling alleys, ice skating and roller skating facilities, etc when they were young…..but as they grew older we did a lot of fancy tea parties in our dining room and focused on learning to have conversations with their peers, topic discussions, etc. they still love, high tea. We always used the Christmas decor, and just went with the colors, golds and whites, or dark reds and greens…..
Somehow sharing their birthdays in the light of the season always made them happy. I hope your daughter always feels the same.
I wish I had thought of a Santa party when she was small! It looks splendid.
Happy Happy, and Merry, Merry!
Author MelindaTripp said:
We also bought theater tickets for all of her friends…..like you said, something they can hold! That was wonderful, a Christmas birthday, can be soooo fun!
Carolyn Cox said:
It seems as if your German Shephard is waiting to visit with Santa! What will she/he ask for ? Or maybe guarding Santa from the bad children that deserve a bag of coal!
You are such a great parent for giving an intimate, special birthday party!
Ruth2Day said:
ahhhh, very sweet, such a lucky girl 🙂
cravesadventure said:
This will be a birthday to remember – wow – great idea! Have a Great One:)
paulaacton said:
I know how much you love theme parties so december if you are likely to have snow could be a good time to have a narnia theme party lots of possibilties for dressing up 😀
the usual bliss said:
My hubby’s birthday is on Christmas Day! It’s always interesting to try to keep it special and not lost in the shuffle!
azsoap said:
Looks like so much fun, I read it twice. Santa and Mrs. Claus look like they stepped from the pages of a Jan Brett book which pleases me immensely. My little boy was born on 12/17 and he looks just like the boy in The Snowman by Raymond Briggs. I love babies + Christmas. It is the best!
dianeskitchentable said:
Your daughter looks so sweet & very sincere w/Santa. The dress is gorgeous! It sure looks like they all had a wonderful time (including your dog who, what? had a word with Santa?). Love those invites but the cake is sooo cute – tell me you didn’t bake & decorate that one yourself! Is she 5 now or is there an extra candle on there for good luck?
My daughter’s birthday is Dec. 16th and here in Mass., we had 3 blizzard years in a row which required party reschedules. We had Santa for 2 parties & one year was my husband. No, she had no idea it was him she was so excited. Since he had changed at the neighbor’s house & DRIVEN over, I had to re-direct her attention when he left because she went running over to the window to see the sleigh w/reindeer. Seriously, John…could you just walk? But as he was driving out I pointed up at the sky & said “oh look, he’s so fast, do you see his sleigh way up in the sky already?” Didn’t she nod her head yes.
Amy Arey said:
What a great idea! I wish I would have thought of that when my own December baby was younger 😉
now at home mom said:
You have amazing ideas! You are a super mom! 🙂
Booksphotographsandartwork said:
What a beautiful idea! I was born on the 20th, my husband the 17th, my grandmother (who is passed away) the 18th, my daughter in law the 19th and my neice the 3rd.
marymiracle said:
What a great idea! Kinda makes me want to have a December baby haha!! 🙂
ADetailedHouse said:
Let’s not get crazy now 😉
kalipr said:
Great, imaginative birthday! I was born on December 21st and my Mother turned around two years later and had my half-sister on the 28th…we like to ask her, “WHAT WERE YOU THINKING???” We were poor and so birthdays and Christmas often got combined for both of us,and I was okay with that, but it did strike me as unfair that my sister got to celebrate her birthday on mine, just because mine came first! 🙂
As I became an adult, I learned about the coolness of a Winter Solstice birthday (according to the jokers, I would have made an awesome Druid sacrifice!) and many people suggested that I just move my date back 6 months and celebrate on June 21st. Yeah, that would be when I gave birth to my older daughter, so that was out.
The family is very considerate and we usually go out to dinner at some restaurant I have been wanting to try, and I always get separate birthday presents “just like all the other kids.”
BTW, the second daughter is a February 1 baby, and weather is always an issue. Our most successful birthday ever for her was a “Princess and Pirates” theme where they could come as either one, the invite was a singed and battered treasure map I made, my husband was “The Dread Pirate Rourke,” and the treasure hunt was the highlight of the day! Imagination rules.
verbalbanter said:
Smart and Creative!
Sending you and yours warm holiday wishes
Valentina said:
Children love stories, especially around Santa. Great planning.
imagineastylishworld: Kat said:
This is a great and memorable idea for a children’s December birthday! Love it!
patinaandcompany said:
I have one December “baby” too, and rather than being upset about sharing the limelight with Christmas, she feels that season and all of its celebration belongs to her. I love your determination to live in the beautiful rooms and enjoy all the velvets and antiques with children and all. I think it forms a beautiful and comforting background for the children’s memories.
Ruth2Day said:
hello, where have you and your wonderful blog gone?
artificial Christmas trees said:
what a great Christmas Tree the kids look like they love it and are real happy