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Where did the time go and where the heck have I been?!?!?
With my little ones on winter vacation I took some time off – and my blogging, which I normally do during at night, got interrupted by this debacle:
Now add one more dog at my feet….
and another one on the velvet sofa at the end of the bed, because obviously the floor is beneath him 😉 And…two cats creating havoc in my room. Oh, did I fail to mention that I adopted two kitties for my girls from the Humane Society? Because clearly, we do not have enough animals in our household 😉
However, I did not mean to take so much time off between posts! I feel like I have been throwing eggs up in the air, trying to juggle them, but someone keeps adding, no – throwing – more eggs at me! Where to start. There’s a dying family member (never easy), a family issue (not so easy), firing our maid for stealing (sucks, but caught her ruse early…she would hide items, like the Coach purses I bought for my girls’ teachers for Christmas to see if I noticed. Ummm, yes, I noticed!!), the girls’ school work (I get novels for emails, school projects, tests, etc.), their extra curricular activities, like two swim teams, Brownies and selling Girl Scout cookies (easy) and an onslaught of work projects, some easier than others.
Caveat: the following paragraph may be boring to most 😉 But, I probably could have kept up with my blog had I not had to map out the global supply chain of the digital information/communication infrastructure and target cyber security weak points, which are *everywhere* considering:
- The architecture was driven more by interoperability, speed and efficiency, rather than by security.
- They are largely owned (approx. 80-90%) and operated by the private sector. It really is crucial for every company and government agency to address cyber security as it underpins almost every facet of our society. It provides critical support for our economy, civil infrastructure, public safety and national security.
Cyber security is one of the most serious challenges we face. Approximately 90% of companies are breached once a year and hundreds of attempts are made weekly by adversaries that are advanced, covert, organized and persistent. Although I still have other projects, I have nothing as all-encompassing or pressing as that one was…and now that I am finished, I hope to resume my normal posting schedule!
I find it very hard to toggle between my right and left brain. I’ve thought often of my blog and topics…but haven’t found something worthy/interesting enough to write about because my head is filled with too many analytical things and some family drama for good measure! Oh, and the cat/dog adjustment has not gone off without its hitches 😉 One dog is just a little too curious and one cat a little too scared, which translates to “scratchy” to whomever is holding the cat. It just takes once to learn that lesson!
But what I LOVE about blogging – just LOVE – is that I was actually missed! I loved getting your emails and messages, and my blog friends very quickly noticed that I was missing!! I really, really appreciate that! Thank you so much for your notes!! Blogging has been my creative outlet. a guilty pleasure where it’s “my time”. When I started, I never expected to find people along the way as well, but it has been my driving force many, many times. And many times, the comments you all have made have turned a bad or a mediocre day into one that has made me smile.
It is because I value you so much, that I agonize over posts and don’t post lightly. I want to make sure that I don’t waste your time with superfluous, insipid or trite ideas. I received hundreds of emails a week for sponsored posts, hotlinks embedded in guest posts, etc, but producing compelling content has always been the point, and I’m not willing to compromise – as it would be a compromise to you all, which is unacceptable 🙂
Sorry for the ramble… Just wanted to let you all know 🙂
Now, I guess I need to come up with some ideas!!!
Amy Arey said:
Glad you’re back!!
ADetailedHouse said:
Thanks Amy!!
Cloches & Lavender said:
Great o have you back and great pictures!!!
ADetailedHouse said:
Thanks, Cynthia! Those dogs make me laugh every day!
cravesadventure said:
Welcome Back! That is a lot of dogs in one bedroom, especially being large dogs too. Happy Friday – Happy Weekend:)
ADetailedHouse said:
Thank you!! One dog does not know the meaning of “personal space” either – she keeps scooting over to get closer to me, so I end up with a sliver of mattress! But I love them all dearly and it’s worth it 🙂 Hope your weekend has been great!
badwalker said:
I’d been wondering. Glad you’re back. For the animal issue – Maybe an indoor dog abode?
Carolyn said:
I missed your blog, too! YES!! I agree: how about an animal issue? Like how to be a multi-pet household, AND have a nicely furnished home, without dog beds, blankets, balls, chew toys, and FUR, more FUR, and even more fur EVERYWHERE!!! I have four terriers, and their white fur is constantly covering everything!. I don’t know how you do it! I love them so much, but am embarrassed by the fur.
Ruth2Day said:
Nice to see you back. What an old cow your maid was!
ADetailedHouse said:
Thanks!! I couldn’t believe her!! Grrrr!!!!!
ParentingIsFunny said:
Glad your life is settling a bit. Welcome back!
daalny said:
Glad you are back!
ADetailedHouse said:
I’m glad to be back too!
ibdesignsusa said:
I also have been wondering. Enjoy your posts and ideas. Understand it can get overwhelming at times and sometimes you just need a break. Glad that your back!
talkavino said:
I have a few comments : )
1. I’m really glad to see you are back (you were missed)
2. I had to re-read that little paragraph you inserted in a middle probably 3 times (I’m hi tech guy during the day time : ) ) – I can only guess that you actually work for a company which deals with cybersecurity… that’s cool!
3. I’m looking forward to the future posts !
ADetailedHouse said:
You know, I actually already knew you were in the tech field! I read it in your blog a while ago – I don’t remember if you mentioned it in a post, maybe in an intro or I once voted for you for a wine blog and maybe it had it there. I love that though!! I’m glad you read my tech paragraph because then I went back and read it as I wrote it at 3 am and found typos!! Haha!! This project was for one of the major defense contractors who is now entering the private sector – they already protect many 3 letter govt agencies. But since Obama had a 60 day summit in 09 about cyber security being one of the biggest threats to the US, most are taking the measures that they protect countries with and implementing it in the com’l mkt 🙂 You may be my only reader interested in this 🙂 YAY you!!! It bores so many of my friends to tears 😉 Haha!!
ripe red berries said:
good to know your still blogging…(: I SO understand the EVERY night interruptions from little ones…I too usually blog at night, while he’s asleep – if he’s asleep…(: glad to know your back.
flyoverhere said:
Glad you are back!
CokaRabbit said:
love your adorable photos!!! and glad to see you are back too!
1st-time mom said:
Yay! You’re back!
Booksphotographsandartwork said:
So glad you are back! Wow what an interesting life you have. I love the photos of the dogs in the bed. That’s the only way to sleep or to have a pet. It shows you have a great heart.
valeriedavies said:
So glad you’re back, and I’m back – had wondered where you were.
Just LOVED the dog pics… For a blog I wrote called Top Dogs ages ago, I found a figure that 70 per cent of dog owners in the UK sleep with their dogs, and many women prefer sleeping with their dogs to their husbands!!!!
Whatever you blog about in the future, keep us posted with the gorgeous dogs – and kittens… looking forward to reading more
redjim99 said:
Welcome back into the virtual world, what were you thinking going and doing real things? 🙂
Jim
happyfamilyorbust.com said:
Thank you for writing a post about being overwhelmed, because I am in the same boat, and it makes me feel a bit less alone!
Love the pictures of the kids with the dogs. With all those pets, I declare you a SuperMom. We have one little frog, and luckily I’ve fallen in love with him, because I couldn’t manage one more little being in my house.
I kind of feel bad for your housekeeper for making such a big mistake, and I feel bad for you for having to fire her. Yet, your kids’ teachers are very lucky to get Coach handbags – ours got notepads and pens from the $3 rack at Michael’s 😉
I’ve been having trouble keeping up with writing on my blog as well – I’ve been trying to find relevant links to refer people to as a way of blogging once a week.
My reply is as long as your post – sorry!
I adore you! Take care and take your time,
Jen
La. said:
I’m glad your back. I took a break as well…sometimes you just have to! As a Mama, sometimes there is nothing left to give and you need a break! I enjoyed reading older posts that I’d missed before becoming a follower!
thelegacyoffaith said:
Glad you’re back and that you and your immediately family are healthy! No need to apologize for “life happening”. Anyone with half a heart completely understands! Looking forward to hearing about what inspires you next…
Vanessa…wahoowa
Born To Organize said:
Welcome back! Life gets complicated at times. It’s often messy.
I’m sorry about your pending loss. Never easy. The animals will hopefully work things out. Time and patience and perhaps a change to the sleeping arrangements. That worked for us.
Best of luck!
ronnie said:
WELCOME BACK!!!!!!
ADetailedHouse said:
Thank you, Ronnie!!! Missed you!!
susan sheldon nolen said:
Welcome back!!!
dianeskitchentable said:
Here, let me look…yup – it’s you! Glad to see you back but oh boy, you’ve had a little bit going on there. So sorry to hear of the family issues, that always adds so much stress. As for cyber security, I really wish that I could bang out a little code so that when my email gets hacked I can send back a nice little package that blows their computer out of the water. I know exactly what you mean about right brain/left brain coordination – I cannot do it.
I LOVE those pictures! I’m just trying to see where you could possibly fit in there but I guess you just have to kind of shove & push to get a few inches of space. Poor guy on the sofa though – looks like he just gave up…”can a guy get some rest around here?”
That is so awesome that you rescued some kitties & I bet it won’t take that long before everyone’s worked out the hierarchy. Lola always had a cat buddy (as I have too) so when we lost Riki Tiki it wasn’t long before I was at the shelter. When I brought Moe home, Lola was fine with him but he wasn’t too sure about living with a big black bear so I put up baby gates & let Moe decide when he wanted to join us. It only took about 2 days before he hopped the gates & came into the kitchen hissing & spitting at everyone. I mean that little punk was only as big as my hand but had Lola backed up into my legs trying to figure out what his problem was. And it hasn’t changed much in 3 years – they love each other but Moe can’t help but be a major chop buster.
I am sooo glad you’re back and I really hope things calm down a little for you. Nice cleaning lady! I mean, that’s a little more than snitching some scrap paper & your favorite pens isn’t it.
bellissimom said:
Really glad to see you back!!
bumpyroadtobubba said:
I rarely have dog envy due to having two of the world’s greatest pup pals, but you have three shepherds? What a LUCKY family you are! Glad you’re back! x
keanetwins said:
Huzzah! You are my housing inspiration to Do Better.
My Ox is a Moron said:
Welcome back! You’ve been missed.
princessprattles said:
Still miss your wonderful posts, but understand how life gets in the way. When you return to blogging you will still have massive support.
I thought of you this morning and felt the need to write and wish you courage and strength. Call me crazy but I believe in following gut instincts.
Sandi
thisisnotbangkok said:
Welcome back :}